| Fugee |
11-11-2004 05:12 PM |
complimentary
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Originally posted by ThurgreedMarshall
You're right. I am focusing on each compliment. But if you are satisfied that each compliment is genuine and I have been consistent since the day we met, where is the problem?
If you need more generous praise as the years go by to keep you happy in your relationship, something else is wrong with your relationship.
TM
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Maybe this is just semantics (hoping TM isn't a complete emotional miser). What kind of frequency are we talking about and do you just consider it a compliment when you say something big like "You are so beautiful"?
For example, when you see she is wearing something new and it looks nice on her, do you say "That ______ looks good on you" or do you wait until she has clearly spent a lot of time getting glammed up?
I don't think it is a question of something wrong with a relationship but, unless you are with someone who is uncomfortable receiving compliments, giving sincere compliments, even little ones, is a loving act and it makes people feel good. I don't know anyone who has gotten to the point of expecting compliments but my population sample is limited. Has anyone experienced this?
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