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But what if she slips or she gets ID'd and the server says "hey, happy B-Day." Does she mumble something about not being big on celebrating and thus spoil all future birthdays with this guy (fine with me since I don't celebrate mine) or does she then explain that she wanted to see him on her B-Day but didn't want to freak him out and thus probably freak him out? Tell him casually when you ask him out and perhaps even add that you are celebrating with friends this weekend and invite him along if you like. This takes off the pressure of slipping up later, tells him that you want to be with him but that it isn't so serious that you are blowing your party time on him. Of course, what the fuck do I know?

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Wait, I don't think I've been in your bed before. Now I'm a little confused though.

I'm typically a freefaller or log. I do sleep diagonally when alone too. Well, I start off straight, but gradually over the course of the night work into diagonal position in the ongoing effort to find a cool spot for the feet.

Had no idea that women with big TITS had sleeping issues. I'll think about that while I am comfortably freefalling tonight.

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I thank you for not mentioning the gf.

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I am sorry but did you just call me flatchested? I have a pillow top mattress with a soft thing on top of it, so my girls have plenty of cushion.

I wonder it this means that a freefaller who gets fake tits has a personality change? bc they are too hard to sleep on? she would lose her brash and greagrious self? Interesting.

I dont get the log. what happens to the arm that is on the side you are lying on? This sounds very oncomfortable.

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Why would I? I was talking about you.

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Nope, just not capital "T" titted. When you get into the DD range (and I seem to recall some trouble in D too) pillow-top doesn't matter -- there isn't anywhere for the boobs to go and you are sleeping on lumps and it can be somewhat painful to that sensitive breast tissue. I have tried sleeping on my stomach with a pillow under me and it is still uncomfortable. Every woman I know with big 'uns (who I have asked about this) says the same thing. We all know what happens to your boobs when you lay on your back so ......

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Yeah, weird. And potentially embarrassing, as TF pointed out. If not that night, it could still end up weird later when they get around to discussing b'days and the guy realizes that he actually did something with her but she didn't tell him. Also bad precedent.

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Was a freefaller until increasing development made it impossible. Now am starfish.

Would never, ever occur to me to wear a bra to bed. Annoying enough to have to wear one in the daytime, except I wouldn't want my rack to bounce up and smash me in the chin walking around.

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(blush) it is your kind, easygoing logness that takes me from being a shy sensitive fetalist to my real, brash freefall self. The one night stand people never get to see this side. Or didnt back in the day, or wouldnt if I did such a thing.

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Wasn't this a Seinfeld episode? The one with Ben Stiller's wife?

Sometimes I think every problem I've ever had or will have has been addressed in a Seinfeld episode. Except for my kayaking problems.

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I think it is only bad precedent if she is one of those Big Birthday people, who like/expect lots of fuss and festivities.

I'm not big into birthdays. I like to go out to a favorite bar/restaurant with friends and have a good time. I don't tell anyone. They feel no pressure to buy a gift or chip in on dinner, I'm not the center of attention, and we have a good time. To me, that is the ideal birthday celebration. Of course, the SO and I have our own special fun later in the evening.

I get to spend the day as I want it, instead of sitting on the couch.

Anne
Of course, depending on sports that they are showing on TV that night, I may want to spend the evening on the couch.

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Started to wear a bra to bed when I started breastfeeding. I HATE IT. The nuimber one reason to wean in my book it to go back to sleeping bra-less...well, that, and the possibility that I may be able to see my toes over my boobies once these things deflate...

I am seriously considering breast reduction surgery once we've decided not to have any more little Brazens...thoughts, comments, cheap shots?

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Are you telling me there is no such thing as a brash, gregarious Double D lady? I think Dolly Parton might disagree. And probably half the women in Dallas where I suspect most of the Double Ded 6.5 live.

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The only problem with this approach is the lack of a truly excellent cake.

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That's odd. I have the 36DDs to contend with, and I sleep freefall most every night. Even when I start out on my side, I end up on my stomach. And I would never wear a bra to bed. It's bad enough having to wear one everywhere else.