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The problem here is the jeep part, not that he can take off the roof.

convertibles for parents (xpost w/ post on car board)
 

1. I'm sure any of the modern convertibles you're looking at would be plenty safe. And the kids will likely love it. I know mine would, but it makes little sense here in the great PacNW.

2. So instead of being known as a "bad/irresponsible parent," you'll be known as a big pussy? Stoopid use of the anon function. If I gave a fuck, I'd be calling for a public flipping.

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I've only been once, and I didn't think it was that horrible - but I was all full of that "I never see my kid running around" latent guilt, so the image of him racing around on a sugar rush was sentimentalized. And, the pizza wasn't nearly as bad as I was expecting, just hilariously overpriced. However, Trepidation Dad considered it a lower circle of hell, so we won't be going back.

Anyway, it always seemed a lot less trouble to me to have kiddie parties at home. You control the munchies, alcohol, quality of the other guests ... why would anyone go to the trouble of arranging something out? Supervising someone else just makes more work. (Or maybe I'm just frustrated with the jr. associates today.)

Which brings me to my question: I am on the cusp of planning Birthday No. 2 for the Trepidation Tyke. Having just received the wonderful and amazing Oriental Trading Company catalog, I am tempted to do a "Tiki-Hut" themed party. Not for the kids' benefit, but for the parents, because we have a great blender and lots of rum (and blenderized fruit drinks should be pretty unobjectionable for the kids, too, whatever the parents' wacky diet ideas). But, the OTC had fun palm tree decorations the kids could yank on and pull down, and inflatable Tiki-horseshoe games, and foam fish sunglasses, and hula skirts, and other miscellaneous beach/tiki type crap that could keep a decent age range well occupied for a few hours without breaking much while the parents get blotto.

Question: I assume that every other parent in the north east also gets the OTC catalog regularly. Will anyone think it is cheesey that I'm getting party ideas from a catalog featuring rubber balls at $3.95/gross? Please note that one of Trepidation Kid's friends' mothers is a professional chef/caterer and editor at Martha Stewart Living. (Then again, she might find "Gummy-Tiki-Heads" a relief, come to think of it.)

Question 2: Can anybody think of a good excuse for me to make jello in my brain-shaped jello mold again? I got the mold for Halloween and it is GREAT. But apple-head/shrunken-head activities might be a bit too disturbing for the wee-ones (or, much worse in my neighborhood, un-PC), and a "but first they PULLED OUT THE BRAIN AND HERE IT IS FOR DESSERT" segue was the only way I could think to bring brain-jello into it.

Question 3: We have no back yard, nor access to anything resembling one. Which makes a Tiki-party sort of strange, but nevermind. However, we do have a fire escape which could be called a "back deck" with a straight face (at least in NYC - there is a real door to it, even). Is it even worth trying to figure out if there is any way to make said fire escape child-safe for the party? I figure anything we do would be illegal, and welding child gates over the stair openings seems like way too much trouble (though I am considering it so I can sit out there in the summer anyhow).

Thanks,
Trep. Ma

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Mmmm, alcohol, fire escapes, and kids. A winning combination! I suggest rides in a convertible.

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Totally disagree on the having parties at home thing.

I did this last year. The Brazenette objected to just about anyone playing with her toys. The Brazen-hounds found it distressing having all those folks in the house, and even more distressing that they were expected not to eat the nachos right off the coffee table.

This year the party is at a local kids' art museum. There's an arts and crafts project, a face painter, chicken fingers and cake. I do not feel compelled to invite anyone whose child does not play or attend school with the Brazenette. I do not feel compelled to provide any adult beverages or edibles. The party will end promptly at its stated time. I do not have to clean up.

This sounds like perfection to me.

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But do they serve boooooze?

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In my experience with a couple of birthdays furnished by OTC, the kids love the crap. Their Halloween stuff is also very popular to give out to trick or treaters.

I say go with it and screw the parents.

Leap Pads
 

We finally opened up the one sent by my sister. In short order, I discovered that Leap Pads can be really fun. Using the "letters" one, I found I could make it say all sorts of things.

Y R M T
I M A Q T
U R A P P
Y R U A B M

My level of maturity is now officially lower than that of my toddler. At least he'll probably learn his letters quickly.

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Keep it G-rated Balt, that kind of comment may fly on the FB, but we are sensitive here. Lord knows all the pervy babysitter posts upset Hank to no end.

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It's not that they upset hiim so much as that it's a condition of his parole that he avoid places where he will be tempted to stray again.

Friend of mine is having a complicated pregnancy: gestational diabetes, high blood pressure that's getting hard to control, and inconclusive ultrasounds about the amount of fluid on the baby's brain. The latter is causing my friend a considerable amount of anxiety.

One of the nurses at the birthing center suggested all of these problems are arising because my friend is having her first baby at the age of 33.

My friend has requested that this nurse not be anywhere near her when she gives birth.

Other than the "first" part, why is this necessarily misguided?

Well, the risks are higher, but the age doesn't cause any of those things to happen. And it's not as if there's anything that can be done about her age.

convertibles for parents (xpost w/ post on car board)
 

before I had #2, I still had my 3 series convertible and #1 loved it! just make sure your kids are hat wearers, or get the ones you can secure under their chins and some 45 sunblock. I am pretty tall and I couldn't fit #2 behind me in her rear facing car seat. I recently looked at the 6 series convertible now that both kids are forward facing and in booster seats, but alas, because I have the longest 3 and 4 year olds in the world, they'd be too squished so i have a wagon, which I love but DH and I both want another convertible, so after his SUV is paid off, i will be lobbying hard for the wind in my hair....

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Umm...bad idea. While you may not mind cleaning crap off your walls from your own kids artistic spontaneity, you won't feel so generaous about others kids' artwork, spillage etc...

If I can manage it, we won't ever have parties at home - lol. chuckie Cheese is okay if there is a small number of kids in your group, like 5, but truthfully, my husband does CEC, not me. but there is always bowling, skating, movies, build a bear, gymnastics, etc... And my very favorite - school parties. You bring goody bags and cupcakes and voila!

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