Because you all have such good taste.
 

If you can get him to admit to this, then his meeting you will also have changed his life.

Because you all have such good taste.
 

Ahhh this is what I mean. Some men factor in the hair into the ratio. Some, legs. You didn't so it is very subjective and I did leave myself vunerable to criticism because I don't feel I am ugly which even you mr. hard grader admit to. I'm not saying I'm all that I am simply stating most find me attractive. that's all. I didn't have to do this I could have hid behind my monitor. but I didn't. I feel you portrayed me in an unflattering light. Not that you lied, but that you won't even concede that my bra size is what it is which is printed in there. agrh

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France, I think.

I have to admit
 

I find the entire ppnyc "But I Am Pretty" raving/justification thread fascinating. But you all know that I am a big fan of reality tv, so this should surprise no one. ppnyc, have you ever considered signing up for Big Brother or Survivor or some such show? I think you would make excellent tv.

I have to admit
 

My husband swears he is funnier than lucky louie and if we took our show on the road so to speak we'd be a hit. don't encourage him.

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No one's ever answered that ancient half-joke/half-query about whether you can actually use a Craftmatic Bed to blow yourself. That's got to be on the net somewhere...

that I can't look right now.

I have to admit
 

can thurgreed meet him?

I have to admit
 

Have him put on a private screening for TM.

I have to admit
 

No, because he will rate him "less than funny"

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I see that MF all that time. Someone must be giving him lunch.

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Did you see the part where he said "these are my opinions so they are necessarily subjective"?

I have to admit
 

Congratulations! I think you've just won the "Couple I'd least like to be seated next to at a friend's dinner" contest! You'd probably just think I was hitting on you anyway, and your husband would think that he's killing with his Airport jokes.

Because you all have such good taste.
 

I think the only solution is TMBDIII, and patent para can seek approval from the rest of us.

Because you all have such good taste.
 

yes and after I hit send I thought about how you said that overall prettiness was the most subjective of all. you're right but I am a hit send ask later kinda gal.

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You are delusional. And that is that.

Okay. We both agree you are not ugly. You are not attractive, unless some guys find your personality attractive. Hang your hat on that, because I can't give you what you seem to want otherwise.

TM

I have to admit
 

"hey big boy" "I just flew in and, boy are my arms tired?" that type of fun?

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I seem to define attractive in looser terms than you. Attractive means generally appealing not smoking hot. ARe you with me on that one?

I have to admit
 

I can't figure out why this topic just won't stop. Don't we have anything better to discuss? I have a boring report to procrastinate writing!! I was much more interested in all the overpriced bedroom furniture.

I have to admit
 

hey seb you aren't impressed with my louis c.k. autograph? he was a nice guy. I know you hate the set and think the wife is a boy looking chick.

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I was just going to post that the more you withhold what she wants the more she will seek it ... and presto! It's like she read my mind. Or I hers. Or something.

I have to admit
 

You don't like reality tv? People are fascinating. I should have been a psychologist.

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I like a challenge. next up, I will rally and lobby to be u friend!

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You are off to a rollicking start.

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Can someone just call her a butterhead so we can end this?

I have to admit
 

Is anyone watching Workout? I covet that chick's body like you wouldn't believe. I could do without all the relationship talk though. It's all over-analyzed.

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She's standing on the highest peak in China right now.

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Still 3400 posts to go.

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When are you going to understand that it is a rare occasion indeed when one can get another to change their opinion once their mind is made up. You can't browbeat anybody into thinking you are "cute" or "pretty" or whatever when they don't think you are.

P.S. There was nothing inherently mean about his assessment of you. You wanted honest, he gave you his honest opinion. Plus, if you've spent any amount of time on these boards, he could have been a lot less "nice" in his assessment than he was.

I give you points for putting yourself out there. Now please, shut the fuck up about it already.

I am sure there's somebody out there who finds you cute, or pretty, or "interesting-looking," or whatever, it just isn't him. It appears you've already found that person -- the guy you married, but like my grandmother always said, there's a lid for every pot. So really, what do you care?

I find you a tedious pain-in-the-ass. You could look like Heidi Klum, and if your board persona is any indication of how you really are, I would get tired of hanging around you.

Because you all have such good taste.
 

No. I define attractive as desireable one way and/or another.

Do you really think nothing falls between you and smoking hot? Like you're the next category down?

TM

I have to admit
 

TM has a gay bed.

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All kidding aside this has kind of fucked with my head. Which is I am sure, TM's goal since he's all about the truth, and being "honest" and basically messing with people's heads. If that was your goal, good man, then you've achieved it. But me being me I reserve the right to consult a second opinion :)

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Settlment is more in the area of butterhair.

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sigh. TM is this what this is all about? you are supposed to be objective. I didn't find you attractive in that way either but was able to say objectively you are handsome. I think you're mistaking that with analyzing objectively. you're not my type either at all. not that you weren't nice or intelligent...you are.

I have to admit
 

TV shows don't last hours like this discussion has.

I didn't become a psychotherapist (what my selfish mother wanted me to be) because I realized that you have two choices with the patient/client bases: the extremely mentally ill (whom, by coincidence, I now represent) and the run-of-the-mill neurotic. I didn't think I had the guts for the extreme mentally ill population and I thought I'd want to kill the boring neurotics going over the same points endlessly.

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Post the tits, then, if you're so desperate for affirmation. Put up or shut up.

I have to admit
 

I've only seen it with close captioning while I've been running on the treadmill. I wasn't really paying attention the first time I saw it and I thought that it was a "this is how lesbians live" sort of docu-drama.

Hey, it's Bravo. I'm surprised they don't have such a show on.

That woman has an amazing body.

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At the risk of shit stirring, that isn't what I heard....

I have to admit
 

A friend of mine quit her practice and went back to get her MBA, because she kept on finding herself wanting to yell "get over it" to her clients. She's an investment banker now.

Because you all have such good taste.
 

Bullshit. There is not a man alive who thinks, "well, the rest of her isn't all that, but that hair, wow."

I have to admit
 

I'm sure I really shouldn't be a psychologist (it was a tongue in cheek comment). If I wanted to do that, I would have become a divorce attorney. But I do enjoy watching people's neuroses from a distance. Does that make me a bad person?