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Originally posted by Adder
So, late last night a get a call from a drunkin ex. This is a girl I dated a looong time ago, and have occasionally hooked up with since when we were both single and in the same place. .....and has apparently now decided that she wants to date again......Anyway, point being that I don't think I want to date her again, and I guess I feel kind of bad about that......But, of course, she also made me promised that last night's conversation wouldn't change our friendship, but as we all know, that may not exactly be possible.......So anyway I don't really know what to do about the whole situation.
While I don't want to date her, I certainly don't want to hurt her any more than necessary.
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Just a thought, fwiw, fyi, assuming the rumours of slave's majikal kitchen are true, and having never been there I have no way to confirm or deny the same, boc hope springs eternal, I would say set her up with slave as a proxy (assuming he is still in the market, which of course, again, I have no way of knowing-he's not my type).
If the legends are true, this would accomplish:
-her orgasmic pleasure and thus, a lessening of her depression and the need to self-medicate with the booze, thus ending late night calls to you;
-the end of her idealization of you, assuming slave is as good as Less, nttawwt, and the Paigow, no offence, told me he is; and
-before long, when the end comes, her resentment of you for introducing her to such a hackish cad, no offence, i.e. no more late night calls, i.e. no more guilt for you.
Win-win-win if you ask me.
My .02, ymmv.
