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Originally posted by dtb
I don't know -- if my husband were fat, I don't think I would love him less; maybe I'd find him less attractive, but it's hurtful to hear that your spouse is "tired" of you because of the way you look. Sad, really.
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It would be hurtful, yes, but arguably it is hurtful to not care enough about your spouse to remain attractive for them. I'm not saying it is okay that he intentionally phrased his sentiment in a hurtful way. I thought people were saying that he was somehow out of bounds for being tired of having a fat wife. I think that is only natural.
