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Bill Simmons Mailbag...from his FEMALE readers...
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Originally posted by greatwhitenorthchick
He nailed it until the end. It's not that hard to remain friends with your booty-callers*. You just make sure you never say anything stupid. I'm good friends with two guys who were the most active in the bootycalling heyday. As for the sleeping over bit, no one who is just coming by for sex ever sleeps over. You just make it a flat rule.
*I don't know what to call them - I dislike this term and the term "friends with benefits" - that term was not popular in my day, and I just used to call them my friends who would sometimes stop by late on weekend nights and I would let in if I was by myself. Kind of a mouthful, but any cute little term sounds stupid.
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I would add to his little manifesto that this arrangement can never ever be successfully accomplished with an ex. There's too much baggage.
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"In the olden days before the internet, you'd take this sort of person for a ride out into the woods and shoot them, as Darwin intended, before he could spawn."--Will the Vampire People Leave the Lobby? pg 79
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