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Originally posted by ABBAKiss
I sort-of see your point re receiving, but giving? I've always heard that the thrill is that the feeling is "tighter." Like a virgin and all that. Not like "I wish this were a dude who didn't have a vag."
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But with no muscles to "give" isn't the recipient just asking for trouble? Just do those little exercises that your mother told you about and you can remain tight in the other orifice.
I had this bf once that would sometimes ask me to, um, stimulate his bummy. I said no, not into that. He finally asked if he could entertain my bummy and I kicked him to the curb -- after 2 years a guy should know what a girl is willing to accept. My hubby is horrified at the thought of someone touching his bummy and equally disgusted by the prospect of bummy-fucking me or anyone else (one of those "would you ever?" conversations).
Mayhap you are right that if a woman wants to be bummied her lover isn't necessarily gay for going along with it, but him asking to be bummied is just too much for me, especially when he is the type who "hates faggots." Maybe I just have trouble getting past the idea that you oughta be excited enough by the partner you have chosen to not have to spice it up with tools, toys, bummy-fucking, etc.
If you want to spice it up, just watch hockey or baseball and fuck (the old-fashioned way) everytime your team scores --- of course, this sucks when your team is in the basement.
