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Originally posted by evenodds
As usual, you've completely nailed it. I don't think anyone has an issue with what anyone does or doesn't do in the bedroom. The issue is the willingness to judge others based on one's particular standard of normality.
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Actually, I think we were looking at vanilla-ality which apparently is everything sexual done between consenting adults that does not involve a man fucking a woman's ass (or vice versa) and the addition of toys, other people, etc. Which in turn makes me boring and vanilla -- I don't eat ice cream so I guess vanilla is just as good as any other.
Saying I would not want to be ass-fucked and find it weird is not judging. I did not label ass-fuckers as deviants or criminals (although I did say that people should wonder why they want to do that but then later said that after considering everything everyone had said here I had been convinced otherwise which, in my opinion, shows that I do in fact have an open mind about things), I just think it is not for me and thus, in my little world, weird. I think people who drive Fords are weird because I wouldn't drive one, that doesn't mean I am judging those people. I still associate with Ford-drivers and, more than likely, ass-fuckers.
That being said, I find pedophilia not normal and thus, in violation of your no-judgment rule above, I am more than willing to judge the adults who engage in it. Same thing with rapists and people who make snuff flicks. I would also judge animal-fuckers because, well, I could not stand to have my kitties taking it in the ass from someone like TM.
