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Originally posted by Gattigap
How common is this?
I suspect that few Census figures are available on the subject, but it is my impression that, The Ice Storm notwithstanding, this is pretty rare.
So, what're the anecdotal impressions of this board? Is this whitebread?
Gatti(Rye? Challah?)gap
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I am of the sense that it is something many people would like but not so many people attain. Mainly because though a couple might agree they want to have sex with a third party (normally a woman) it isn't always so easy to convince a third party to go along with it.
I think it is more a fantasy then a reality. And I think when the reality happens, if it happens between two people who are in a relationship and a third party, it frequently causes more trouble then it is worth. I have had a number of friends do this over the years. It is never a happy thing. The only time I have seen it work is when three random people have sex, or three friends who can get beyond any potential issues, which is rare.
I don't consider it white bread, but then I don't consider a lot of things on the original list white bread. I'm probably pretty vanilla. With one or two exceptions.
