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Originally posted by mmm3587
Hey, no offense meant, but you remind me of this woman who works at my firm: senior associate, will probably make partner first try, really well respected, really attractive, great body, but very concerned about finding Superman. If she got a little less intense for a second, she would find a great guy and be happy; she can't.
If something means something to you, do it. Get pregnant, if you can and you want to. Single mother homes are normal now. If you can't get pregnant, adopt a kid. There are plenty. Sure, some might be of a different race or creed than you, or a toddler instead of an infant, but it's a melting pot, remember? If you are so worried about the child being of your own womb, there are a lot of dorks out there. Find one, and have kids with him. Don't want to marry out of neccessity? Then childbearing must not be as important to you as you think it is.
Anyway, I am not trying to be critiical. I am just amazed by this phenomenon of strong, great, yet needy women unable overcome some sort of base reproductive instinct even as they excel at their careers. In my co-worker's case, and in your case, it doesn't seem like you even want kids. You just need to want a kid.
mm(glad that the instincts of the human male still exhibited today are far more stupid and banal than evolutionariliy necessary)m
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The example you cite above is why I never fucked a lawyer sober.
Most of the lawyers I deal with are social fucking invalids (this board seems to attract more rebellious, loose type folks, so i do not include anyone here). They're super high strung and have major poles up their asses. Couple this with the biological clock and you have a fucking disaster waiting to happen.
I messed around with a few female lawyers many years back and recall them all being bags of cats. I imagine women probably have the same results with most male lawyers. Sometimes these anal nutcases are great in the sack because its the only place they ever get to release tons of pent up insanity, but even great sex doesn't make up for their neurosis and nitpickiness.
Some twisted wench I hooked up with for a while actually told me she couldn't keep sleeping with me because I didn't fit in with her stiffer colleagues (I was the guy ordering double bourbons at happy hour and cracking off color jokes to her dork contingent friends, which I thought was being friendly, but she found offensive).
S(fuck lawyers figurately, never literally)D
