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		| Originally posted by ABBAKiss What I find odd is that one can control ones weight.  One cannot necessarily control or create wit, intelligence, athletic ability, or inherent beauty.  I think it is ridiculous to rip on someone for something that they are either born with or not.  It's like ripping on someone because their dad is a garbage man.  What does this have to do with them?
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 I disagree.  I think wit can be nurtured, intelligence gained (at least book knowledge - interesting facts, etc...), athletic ability at least improved and even beauty improved, all within limits, of course.  
And one can overcome the other.  A moderately attractive, funny, nice chick is probably going to grab my attention and hold it a lot longer than a hot mean, dull chick.