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Originally posted by robustpuppy
I don't understand this. I thought the so-called rationale behind not pursuing a guy is that he might not want a relationship with you if you do. If because of the age difference all you want is fun and a fling, why the hell wouldn't you pursue him? Especially if he might be into you.
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The reason for not pursuing him is that he is 2 years younger than my little brother and I am not going to invest time and effort in a relationship that I am not comfortable with.
I also don't have the time or energy to pursue a sexual fling. Instead I should be out looking for men closer to my age or actually sleeping so that I will have enough energy for sex if the opportunity presents itself.
I'll continue to flirt with him and admire his non-taught abs and should he pursue me, or the sexual opportunity arises, I'll think about it. It's nice to have options.
Does that make sense to anyone but me?
For the record I hve gone outside the 10 year age limit. I had a fling with a snowmaker at a ski resort who was 15 years younger. Very sweet guy and the sex was great.
