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Originally posted by sebastian_dangerfield
Oh for Christ's Fucking Sake...
If I had a nickel for every older woman or angry spinster who ripped older guys who fucked younger women apart as insecure or pathetic, I'd have a 600 SL. Its the reverse of the argument made by unsuccessful men that women are whores because they'll fuck ugly men with money.
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[sigh] I have to agree with you but I will do so without using the term "angry spinster." Why should anyone care why anyone else chooses a mate/fuck-buddy/whatever (unless, of course, it has something to do with the mate being pre-pubescent or something squicky and illegal like that)? It is kinda like caring if other people get plastic surgery -- I may personally choose not to and find it funny when fake boobies stand at attention, but.... --- it just makes you "sour." Face it ladies, our "window" is just smaller than a man's. It may be really fucking unfair, but that is how it is -- women are constantly judged on looks and men by how successful they are (although looks don't hurt either). I bet men think it is unfair that an otherwise great guy gets shitcanned for not having social status and lots of jack. Labeling a guy who likes young women as insecure isn't fair to him or to you. If it makes you feel any better, just remind yourself that statistics point to him being old and lonely someday because eventually the money (at least the amount that he has) won't be enough and maybe he will regret at and maybe he won't but why do you care?
All normal people eventually age -- boobs sag a bit, skin gets loose, hair falls out, tummies get soft, balls droop into the toilet water, etc. If there are guys who prefer younger women then I say all power to them for as long as they can do it, ain't none of my business. The funny thing is that, in my experience, the women I know (everyone on the FB excepted because, well, I don't really know you now do I?) who look at men who fuck younger women and call them insecure, etc. were those same younger women (or wanted to be) 10 years ago and now they are just a little upset at themselves and life because they didn't realize that their "window" was speeding by while they played the field. They all called me crazy for marrying and having a child in my mid/late-20s when they figured I was in my prime for "playing." Now they are all pissed at the men their age and older who are going after the women that they used to be and lamenting the "dearth of good men to settle down with while there is still time to make babies." All of the good ones are not taken, but they are a bit harder to find after 30.
NOTE: I would like to reiterate that the comments above are based on personal experience and in no way represent an analysis of anyone on the FB or their reasons for feeling/believing a certain way.
