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Originally posted by ltl/fb
Even if you get married? Niiiice. I'm sure your mind won't be changing in the event you meet someone you want to share the rest of your life with.
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I'm sure it will and I could amend the living will then. But although it is wrong, I admit to feeling more comfortable with direct family making these life decisions and for some reason have this hard-to-shake feeling that after a long hospitalization and the possibility that my spouse moved on, my parents or daughter might be better off as the guardians. Though not a veggie example, my Aunt died at 42 leaving two kids and a second husband (not the kids bio dad), and a will that gave everything to the hubby (with the presumption he would share with the kids). Everyone was shocked and upset at her death but 6 months later he was married to a lady who I noticed was eyeing him at the wake. The kids saw none of the money. Right or wrong, these things color my views.