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Originally posted by ThurgreedMarshall
I guess my point is that he should be loyal to his friend, seeing as they are...well, friends.
Besides, as for the ex, if you really want my opinion, I think it's fucked up that she's fucking her ex-boyfriend's friend two weeks (or whatever) after they broke up. Seems like a shitty thing to do.
Friendships are more important than most relationships. I don't know how close the two friends were (getting drunk after a funeral seems to imply that they were pretty good friends), but if this girl was so hot and smart and incredible, there is a possibility that Guy A would want her back. Fucking her two weeks later without finding that out pretty much ends that possibility. Hell, I bet half of the people posting here on this one are full of shit -- trying to make everyone seem like they are above it all. Give me a break. Something like that would affect a friendship.
TM
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I was assuming that the relationship was over. I didn't think of the real issue as loyalty or wanting the person back -- it's that perhaps the only thing worse than thinking about your ex fucking someone else is thinking about your ex telling her new boyfriend all about how badly you sucked. I also don't think that these people are fungible dating units and assume they really liked each other.
I don't imagine anybody here thinks it won't or "shouldn't" affect the friendship between the two guys. Nobody said Guy A should still be B's close friend afterward. I thought it was more about whether what Guy B had done was wrong or whether he deserved to be an outcast because of it.
ETA I think it was two months after the breakup, not two weeks.
