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Originally posted by dtb
This may be true as between the two of them from a relationship standpoint, but I think it's not from a legal one. Once they've reconciled (meaning they've had sex after the wronged party has found out about the affair), the slate is wiped clean. Then she's on higher ground legally b/c he's had an affair and she hasn't.
The reason I know this is my friend (who has had terrible luck with husbands) found out her husband (her first husband) had been having an affair for six of the seven years he and she had been married (he left her when she was eight months pregnant), and the cretin tried to get her to have sex with him, so that she couldn't use the affair against him in the divorce proceedings.
Thankfully, that strategy was not successful. Whew. That was ugly, I can tell you.
[This is probably whiffering (or whatever you kids are calling it these days), as I'm responding seriously to a joke, but it's useful information nonetheless.]
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I wasn't kidding. I just don't think I could deal with being near my wife if she cheated. It's a nasty thing to have to stay monogamous. We're wired to do the opposite. I'd be very angry to learn that I was getting duped in an arrangement that involvs that level of commitment and sacrifice. I'd need to cheat a little myself just to be able to live with myself. How could any man be a cuckold? I'm not an egomaniac, but I couldn't handle knowing she banged someone else and I didn't at least milk that opportunity. I'd feel like the biggest duped rube in history.
So Cuckold, the meter's running... take a half day and go hunting. Otherwise you're going to feel silly in a few weeks when the reality of it sets in...
