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Originally posted by Spanky
Call me superficial but I like to date beautiful woman. I also like to date interesting women. I also believe in quality not quantity. I don't often find a woman I am interested in romantically but when I do I try and get what I want. When I find what I want I work very hard to get it. I think if you met me you would be surprized at some of them women I have dated. I have dated quite a few models and lived with one who at the time was on the cover of vogue. I also dated a woman, that at the time was a B movie actress, but became a top porn star (Less can back me up on this). I didn't want to get into this because I am trying to show off, I am just trying to point out that I might know what I am talking about. The reasons that these woman are relevent is that many men were pursuing them, much of them, in a sense mutch better qualified (richer, better looking, more successful etc) but I won out in the end. I have pursued a lot of woman that were not into me at first but then then I got them to change their minds. So in a sense my research has worked.
Most of my adult life I have dicussed these pursuits with the women I know and my experience has been when you first broach the subject with a woman their knee jerk responses at advice is wrong. I am not saying that to be condescending it has just been my experience so many times I can't count. After you get them to really think about how they have acted in the past then you get some useful advice. Especially when you get a woman to remember a guy that she didn't like at first but then he got her to change her mind. When you get a woman to explain her thinking during that tranformation that information is gold.
This Serbian woman was traffic stopping beautiful and was very interesting. I was quoting movie lines and she was catching them even though they were movies not from her generation and English is not her native language. But she is gun shy and really wary so there is a strong chance the pursuit is going to fail and either way it won't be easy. But nothing worth having in life is ever easy. What I am trying to say Sebastian and others I appreciate your attempts to give me adivce but please know when I question it, it is not out of arrogance, it is because I have had such advice before and learned that it wasn't good from experience.
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Do you honestly think any of us really care enough to read three long paragraphs?
ETA while it's possible that paigow foisted the vision of the simple guy with simple tastes like watching deer and pondering their eating habits persona on you, to the extent you use it, you can't have it both ways -- sophisticated guy with sophisticated women, and simple guy with deer. It's two-dimensional around here.
