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Originally posted by MisterEbola
I'm fully aware of the duration - as noted in the subject line of the original post. However, given that he's STILL posting messages on this issue two years later leads me to believe that there is still significant ambivilence in the poster - especially with respect to the kiddies.
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He's not ambivalent. He knows what he wants. He just wants a bunch of people to tell him he's right. He's already made up his mind. Bilmore is right. Talking about divorce for years is unfair. She probably thinks he's having a mini mid-life crisis and will be grounded again once it's over. She's moving on, assuming that he doesn't really want to pull the trigger. He makes her sound nuts (asking for another kid when it seems like their life is in chaos), but I think what's going on is that he's pretending that their life isn't in as much chaos as he thinks it is in his head and he's making her believe he still wants to be with her.
TM