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Originally posted by leagleaze
It was a commentary on your apparent lack of understanding of the dynamics of this site, as I have mentioned before, as much as anything.
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I understand the dynamics of this site completely. What you don't like is that I don't conform to your dynamics. You don't have to participate in the dynamics here to understand them. We all post here for different reasons. If anyone doesn't understand something it is you. You are baffled by my presence here and attribute it to some failing on my part.
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Originally posted by leagleaze
If I may be serious for a moment, it is a mistake to think you can knowwhat someone is really like based upon how he or she presents himself on the boards.
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You will get no quarrel from me on that one. I find myself repeatedly giggling at other posters' attempts to figure out who I am IRL.
As I and others have noted, the fact that you can act in ways here that you cannot IRL is a big draw for many of us.
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Originally posted by leagleaze For example all I have heard tells me (and you will forgive me SD) that SD is a pretty good guy. I wouldn't mind meeting up with him for a cup of coffee next time I am in his neck of the woods. I imagine we would probably have a good conversation and a lot of laughs.
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That seems to contradict your statement that "it is a mistake to think you can knowwhat [sic] someone is really like based upon how he or she presents himself on the boards."
If his postings are anything like he is IRL, he seems pretty base to me.
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Originally posted by leagleaze You call Slave by the nickname rapist wannabe or whatever it was. Slave is one of the nicest, kindest people I know. The thought he would harm a woman is laughable and when you call him that I find it vile.
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I find it vile that a man fantasizes about shoving his cock in a women's mouth against her will to shut her up. That is fantasizing about commiting an act of violence of a sexual nature against a women. Men who envison themselves doing that to women are disturbed and in need of professional help so that they don't ever act on their fantasies.
I know if you are anything like who you present yourself to be, you find those types of fantasies vile, too. It is just that Slave helped you with these boards and so you won't admit that. Your motivation in defending him is transparent.
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Originally posted by leagleazeWe see here only what people want us to see. Frequently it is just an act, sometimes it is a facet of the person. But no one who only knows me, for example, here, could begin to say they know what I am really like.
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I don't and have never said anything that disagrees with that statement. Somewhere in Slave's mind is this notion that a sex act is to be used in an aggressive and violent manner against a women's will to shut her up. And for some reason, he wanted us all to see that.
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Originally posted by leagleazeI wouldn't begin to judge you off board if I met you and knew who you were, by what you say on here.
I would wonder why you feel the need to present yourself the way you do, but I would give you the benefit of the doubt.
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Feel free to judge me in virtual life or IRL. I could care less.
Feel free to turn this board all about me, again, too. The politics board is dead today. I am happy to be here. It is paigow that is unhappy to have me here. She can't stand that the board is so taken with me.
