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Originally posted by dtb
I agree striving to be a good employee and a good spouse are honorable traits - but having a job (or not) and having a spouse (or not) do not impact one's ability to be (or not be) a good person. You made it sound as though until you have a job and a spouse, you aren't even eligible to try to be a good person. Again, I don't really think you mean that, but it is how it sounds.
And she was being sarcastic. You're just going to have to trust me on this one (or not).
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you forget before I was married as we all once or are was I was single. It isn't like I'm a flower and gosh, was watered and came alive when I became a domestic goddess! When I was single, while fun and did have more to spend on mememememememmemememe I feel that I was self absorbed and narcissitic a bit....and i'm a better person trying to give to my family. don't you? feel that it is gratifying to give? to be selfless to want the best for your little ones? How is that bad?
