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Originally posted by patentparanyc
you forget before I was married as we all once or are was I was single. It isn't like I'm a flower and gosh, was watered and came alive when I became a domestic goddess! When I was single, while fun and did have more to spend on mememememememmemememe I feel that I was self absorbed and narcissitic a bit....and i'm a better person trying to give to my family. don't you? feel that it is gratifying to give? to be selfless to want the best for your little ones? How is that bad?
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It's not bad. It's fine. But it's not better than anyone else's choice.
I just had a kid and people now say to me "Isn't it wonderful! Now you reaslly understand 'life.'" Bullshit. Its a fucking kid. I don't understand anything. I just have one more head under the roof and less sleep. No great epiphany. I'm no better or worse than I was the day before she popped the fucker out.
