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Originally posted by ThurgreedMarshall
No. You have forced me to hammer it home by accusing me of all sorts of motives instead of accepting the fact that I simply don't think you're good looking.

Now you're just lashing out, hoping I'll look like I was mean during our meeting. I was 10 minutes late and the first thing I did was apologize. Of course, you know that working in a law firm sometimes means you will be late, so I don't know why you even brought it up.

I wasn't trying to be charming. But I was polite at all times.

You asked me about what I was going to post and I said I would be honest, but I added that there was no way your breasts were that big. Your reaction did not indicate that you thought it was rude and you laughed and continued discussing them and how you (or the salesperson came to that conclusion).

And you're trying to take the rape thing out of context. You said something about how someone else on this board and how he made you feel uncomfortable because he asked you to lunch and I said, "I'm sure he didn't mean it that way." You said you turned him down because you try to be careful about stuff like that and I said, "You wouldn't have to worry about me trying to rape you here in Grand Central Station."

I was nice to you at all points. Over email you indicated that you liked expensive drinks and that I had to pay because I'm a lawyer and you're staff. In fact, I ended up buying you your drink.

When we were leaving, you wanted to walk with me whether I was going outside or downstairs. You could have gone either way to get where you were going, yet you chose to take the extra steps with me even though I said I was going the other direction.

I am in no way implying that you liked me, but you are full of shit if you're trying to color our meeting like I was some arrogant asshole.

I have characterized myself neither as charming nor a "heavy hitter" and I was arrogant about nothing. If I was, you would have gone on and on about it in your post already, with actual quotes.

But nice try.

TM

since you already *albeit sarcastically* capitulated [the okay okay you're pretty post] now you know the tactics I use on poor husband. I'm re-lent-less.