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				Confidential to the other Uber-Smug Divorcees
			 
 
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		| Originally posted by greatwhitenorthchick I am just wondering -- many friends of mine confided in me after I got separated/divorced that they never could understand what my husband and I were doing together, and that they never really cared for him and they never could understand what I saw in him.  But all through the dating/marriage, they never said anything.  It annoys me that they did not -- I can understand that they would not want to be jerks and criticize someone I love, but really, if you have an opinion, sometimes it is helpful to share it.
 
 I am wondering if any of the other uber-smug divorcees had this experience and if so, whether it bugged them.
 |  I never wanted this to get out, but, I really couldn't stand your husband.  I'm sorry.
				__________________No no no, that's not gonna help. That's not gonna help and I'll tell you why: It doesn't unbang your Mom.
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