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Originally posted by ltl/fb
If scrubbing my floor with your tongue is what will do it for you, have at it. Please be aware that there may be some raw egg on the floor, and I will not be held responsible for any intestinal disorders that might result from that.
I draw the line at diapers, even if they are purely for show. Sorry.
ETA alas, I have not re-encountered back-hurting guy.
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This reminds me of an etiquitte question recently asked of me by a male friend of mine. He is notoriously into a variety of kinky shit*, so not much should suprise him, yet this did.
First date (they always are). She's on top. Without asking or warning, she starts choking him. He thinks "ok, I'll try for a little while, I have friends who are into this and they have told me this is awesome." He lets her go for a little while then takes her hands away from his throat. He said it hurt like hell.
The "do you bring your kinks out on the first date" discussion ensued, and everyone agreed that it's probably a good idea to lay it all out there early on so six months into dating, you're not hit with a "I'm into the furries" fetish.
But, should a) bring out your knink on the first date/fuck? and b) isn't it polite to warn someone about the kink before engaging in the kink? Does it depend on the kink?
Frankly, if I were to let someone choke me (and I'd have to think a little about that before it were to happen) it'd have to be someone I trusted, and I don't think most first date/fucks are in that category.
