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Originally posted by Sparklehorse
I have a question for all the board denizens who have been through divorces. A close friend is in the process of getting a divorce and her wedding anniversary is coming up in the next few weeks. What's a good way for her to get through the day?
Apologies to the keepers of snark if this is too nicey-nice.
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I probably had a more amicable divorce than most, but I spent my anniversary after my divorce at a nice dinner with my ex-husband. I did not have any difficulty getting through the day because I knew I made the right choice in divorcing him and was so glad I still had my best friend. From what I recall, no one else realized it was my anniversary except for my ex and me.
But maybe just see if she wants to get dinner or do something without specifically stating "I am offering to do this so that you do not pity yourself today."