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Originally posted by ABBAKiss
Do most people think of divorce as an indicator that a mistake was made, either in the getting married or in the getting divorced?
I do not think I made a mistake when I married Mr. Kiss and I do not think I made a mistake when I divorced him. At all! I think I did the right things at the right times. Just because five years later we were not the same people we were when we tied the knot does not mean the marriage was a mistake to begin with, in my mind.
But seriously, do most people view a failed relationship as a mistake? I really never have.
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I don't know whether most people do, and I think that generally most significant things one goes through help make one the person one is today, but really, there are outlier situations where perhaps, in retrospect, it would have been better if it had never happened. Like hooking up with Jeffrey Dahmer. Or being born.