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Originally posted by NotFromHere
First of all, congratulations.
Second, personally, I think that if you're not going to have a wedding or a reception, then registering is tacky. Because the gift is kind of for being invited to those things.
And here's is the marriage lady's etiquette answer to someone who is eloping and is not having a reception, but a party at their house...
Dear Eloping,
You can register, but your party is not considered a gift giving situation. Gifts are given for the wedding; not the party or reception. However, many guests may want to congratulate you with a gift, so you could register. Just do not inform people of your registry unless they ask.
Best wishes,
Rebecca Black, Etiquette by Rebecca & Etiquette Now
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Oh, Bullshit!
Gifts are given because someone loves you and wants to wish you well. Gifts may not be mandated, but generous people will still give them (just as generous people will usually tip their friendly FBI agent).
Registering avoids duplicates and lets people get what you want. Tell this Black woman to go screw.
