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Originally posted by ABBAKiss
Oh yes. I told him that he could have a puppy and the puppy could live with us but that I was not going to take care of it. I am not going to buy food for it. I am not going to feed it. I am not going to walk it. I am not going to train it. I am not going to pet it. If I feel like doing one or more of these things on occasion, I am free to do so. But he is not to expect that I will.
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Except that this attitude will wear off of both of you and he'll call you and say that he's going to be late and ask you to feed and walk the dog and it will seem unreasonable to say no. And then you'll be at the store and he'll ask you to buy food. And it will continue like this until you guys are splitting the responsibility (just like how he has transformed his temporary living situation into one where you are actually talking about having kids).
TM
Sorry. I will stop lecturing you now.
