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Originally posted by evenodds
She has just started dating this new guy. They've been out once or twice, and she likes him.
She'd like to go out with him for her birthday.
Should she remind him that her birthday is next week and hope he steps up? Should she schedule something with him for her birthday, but not tell him it's her birthday? Or something else?
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Does she want to go out with him for her birthday because she likes him and it would be nice to spend time with him on her birthday, or is she setting up some sort of subconscious test of his potential?
It's too early in the relationship (if there is one) to expect him to do something special for her birthday. Of course, if he's smart, or a playa, he'll do something nice and score points.
If she wants to spend time with him (instead of with friends or family), then she should schedule something with him and not tell him it is her birthday. It's unfair to put that kind of pressure on someone so early in a relationship.
Anne
You should spend your birthday how you want to (you only get one a year).
