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Originally posted by evenodds
This is the advice I gave her [don't tell him that it is her B-Day]. It's too soon to put performance pressure on.
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But what if she slips or she gets ID'd and the server says "hey, happy B-Day." Does she mumble something about not being big on celebrating and thus spoil all future birthdays with this guy (fine with me since I don't celebrate mine) or does she then explain that she wanted to see him on her B-Day but didn't want to freak him out and thus probably freak him out? Tell him casually when you ask him out and perhaps even add that you are celebrating with friends this weekend and invite him along if you like. This takes off the pressure of slipping up later, tells him that you want to be with him but that it isn't so serious that you are blowing your party time on him. Of course, what the fuck do I know?
