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Ambition and relationships
FBA:
I don't know if you ever said, but, what does she do? I dislike wanting-to-marry-up social climbers as much as the next (sane) guy, but some are also smart, successful professional women. You can call these the "perfection seekers" who would never even consider marrying someone who isn't going to bust his ass to make a lot of money, too. Greed is kind of sexy when she's also working her ass off to buy all the shit that she wants.
Is she also doing her own thing pretty well, or is her only hope of a brownstone and a BMW marrying well? That, to me, is the bright line betwwen merely somewhat dislikable and despicable. Also, how quick she is to put out. That makes even the most despicable women a little more likable.
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