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Originally posted by paigowprincess
Usually when this happens with someone, well always, the guy was just as swayed by itt, and then things giot REALLY intense. Then I had to back out of it bc it was too intense. maybe I am old enough to deal with it finally? I wonder if the people in LTRs for the most part felt this initially?
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Yes, felt it initially. Still feel it. As someone else said (Coltrane? sorry, I was skimming), the connection can be purely physical or it can be more of a connectedness, sort of a feeling that this person was meant to be in your life. True that the physical thing might lead to a more volatile relationship, but if you have both the physical and the other (spiritual doesn't seem quite right, but similar), then maybe some of that volatility is worth working through.
At least that is the story coming from this counseling survivor...
