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Originally posted by LitiGator
I have been dating a GA from my firm for about a year. Dating might be a little strong. We have been hanging out and sleeping together. My roommate, who used to work with us, suspects. Other than that, no one else knows. (Since we all go out together a few times a week, we all keep the relationships quiet.)
We like each other, but it's really about the fantastic sex.
We are at a crossroads in the relationship. I am looking for an actual relationship (it started as a rebound for me), and I cannot figure out how to break the news without making this a big deal.
Any advice would be appreciated.
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Are you also a GA or are you a partner? Just curious. Have you worked out for yourself what would be different about the relationship if it were an "actual relationship"? Like, would that involve (to you) not keeping the relationship as quiet anymore? It sounds like you spend a fair amount of time together (even aside from sex) so I'm wondering what the change would entail. Also, if you are going to broach this, it seems like something y'all would need to discuss, and that would obviously be easier if you can articulate what you want out of the relationship other than company and sex.
Edited to add, don't pay attention to the avatar. Pretend it's still Salome with the head of St. John the Baptist. Cathy's face plus the earnest relationship questions is a bit much.
