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Originally posted by ltl/fb
Are you also a GA or are you a partner? Just curious. Have you worked out for yourself what would be different about the relationship if it were an "actual relationship"? Like, would that involve (to you) not keeping the relationship as quiet anymore? It sounds like you spend a fair amount of time together (even aside from sex) so I'm wondering what the change would entail. Also, if you are going to broach this, it seems like something y'all would need to discuss, and that would obviously be easier if you can articulate what you want out of the relationship other than company and sex.
Edited to add, don't pay attention to the avatar. Pretend it's still Salome with the head of St. John the Baptist. Cathy's face plus the earnest relationship questions is a bit much.
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Name one partner with a roommate, genius.
You are a chick, right? Just say, "hey, it's been fun, but it's done". If it's just sex, the guy(?) will not care much. Except for losing a good situation.