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Originally posted by ABBAKiss
How on earth have you kept this a secret? I am not fucking my co-workers regularly, nor do I think any of them are, and rumors fly. Are you sure this is secret?
Maybe I am just more overt than most.
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I think that we all probably have all kinds of stories about (sometimes married) partners, associates and support staff getting involved with each other and keeping it a secret for a while, but not forever.
It makes for great gossip. In my experience and observation, if you really want to keep it a secret, you can. But many times people's feelings about wanting to be open about their relationships, wanting to talk about the relationships with work friends and just simply wanting attention lead to the relationship being revealed. I don't think that it's a mystery why it's always the same people being gossiped about. Some people get off on the attention and love being gossiped about. Even if they don't admit it or even know it on a concious level. If they didn't, they wouldn't keep doing ostentatious things in ways that lead people to find out about them.
Original poster, do you always fuck at the other person's house? Don't you think that your roommate has told his or her former co-workers about what he or she suspects? Don't you think they've picked up on the way you interact with your depo partner when you two are out with work people?
