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Originally Posted by ThurgreedMarshall

Yes. I arranged to meet her because she wanted someone to confirm her beauty. I told her in advance that I would relay actual my opinion and that she might not want me to do it. She was secure in her looks or thought I wouldn't be as blunt as I typically am.

I met her for a drink. She was very bubbly and somewhat nervous. I was very polite (nice, even). We did not talk about her looks at the meeting.

The next day I posted that she was short and fairly pudgy, not ugly, but definitely overweight, which, in my opinion affected her looks, and that she did indeed have nice hair (which I threw in because she was so fixated on it and I didn't want to shit all over her). I was way nicer than I could have been, because once I met her, I realized there was no need to trounce all over her.

Then she didn't like what I said and immediately lied about our meeting. She posted that I hit on her (which is a fucking joke) and said I dressed below my station (probably guilty as charged), and informed everyone that I should have been partner at that point (coming from a secretary, pretending to be a paralegal, that didn't really bother me much). The lie about me hitting on her really pissed me off and I probably ended up being meaner than I should have been from that point on.

She later publicly retracted the lie and sent me personal messages about various aspects of her life that she thought confirmed her beauty, but which really were just awful, disgusting things that I won't repeat.

And then she took over this board by becoming overwhelming annoying and I sent messages to everyone asking them to ignore her, which eventually got her to leave.

TM

God, what a thoroughly unlikable person. She was by far the biggest pain in the ass in administrating this board for nearly 11 years. Apparently, as administrator, I wasn't allowed to have a personal opinion about her.

Every now and then I'd feel a tiny bit sorry for her, and then she'd say something outrageous or offensive or ridiculous, and any sympathy I had would go flying out the window.