This abstract below articulates what I am talking about. It isn't the fact that the parents get divorced that matters. It is the level of conflict in the parental relationship that matters. It just so happens that high conflict marriages tend to end in divorce. That is why you see the correlation between divorce and problem children. But it isn't the divorce per se that caused it. It is the marital conflict.
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http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/q...&dopt=Abstract
J Am Acad Child Adolesc Psychiatry. 2000 Aug;39(8):963-73.
Children's adjustment in conflicted marriage and divorce: a decade review of research.
Kelly JB.
Department of Psychiatry, University of California at San Francisco, USA.
jbkellyphd@mindspring.com
OBJECTIVES: To review important research of the past decade in divorce, marital conflict, and children's adjustment and to describe newer divorce interventions. METHOD: Key empirical studies from 1990 to 1999 were surveyed regarding the impact of marital conflict, parental violence, and divorce on the psychological adjustment of children, adolescents, and young adults. RESULTS: Recent studies investigating the impact of divorce on children have found that many of the psychological symptoms seen in children of divorce can be accounted for in the years before divorce. The past decade also has seen a large increase in studies assessing complex variables within the marriage which profoundly affect child and adolescent adjustment, including marital conflict and violence and related parenting behaviors. This newer literature provides provocative and helpful information for forensic and clinical psychiatrists in their work with both married and divorcing families. CONCLUSIONS: While children of divorced parents, as a group, have more adjustment problems than do children of never-divorced parents, the view that divorce per se is the major cause of these symptoms must be reconsidered in light of newer research documenting the negative effects of troubled marriages on children.
Publication Types:
Review
Review, Tutorial
PMID: 10939225 [PubMed - indexed for MEDLINE]
