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Originally posted by ThurgreedMarshall
Probably wise.
Because it isn't necessary to completely cut yourself off from your past just because you're now with someone else. Because if you are quite sure that it will be harmless, but won't be perceived as harmless, there is no point in giving yourself the headache. Because if you're actually friends with the ex, they deserve more than to be completely cut off. And yez, no SO deserves to be lied to, but if nothing is going to happen, they don't need to be told.
TM
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the problem, thurgreed , is that if yoru SO perceives it wont be harmless, either she has reason to suspect you might cheat, or she is paranoid. either way, there is a trust problem and your relationship is unhealthy and possibly doomed without counseling or something.
