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Originally posted by Bad_Rich_Chic
Sure (some of whom I've met through this board, in fact). But I've effectively lost a lot more because I don't have enough time to nurture the relationship beyond some half-hearted "how are you doing? We really need to get together" e-mails a couple times a month. And I'd say, honestly, that I've lost most of the friends I had who aren't in a similar line of work, and I am vastly poorer for it. Is it all the fault of having a job? Of course not, but I don't think work has led to a net increase in the diversity, interest and quantity of my friends. Sometimes a drink or dinner a couple times a year is enough, sometimes when you finally get together for that drink you discover that you have become total strangers.
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Which raises a good point. How did you meet your very best (non-spouse) friends?
Coltrane's buddies are probably the guys he met in school. I'm thinking probably college.
My best friends are from the 'hood. Grade school, high school and a few from college.
Good friends are ones met in law school. A few from work.