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		| Originally posted by NotFromHere That sounds like a soap opera plot.
 Still, if he asked for 3 months to decide, he should have taken some initiative in that department knowing what she wanted.
 Of course this type of behavior makes all women look like lying conniving bitches.
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 No.  You know what makes all women look like conniving bitches?  When one woman does something so atrocious and all the other women say "Hey, shouldn't he have been using birth control himself, knowing what she wanted?  After all, he should have known that the woman he'd been married to for ten years was a conniving bitch with no impulse control...because after all, she's a woman."
If I said I wanted a baby now and my husband said he'd like to think about it for a couple of months, I would never take it upon myself to stop using birth control.  And my husband shouldn't have to worry that I might.  Because I am not a conniving bitch.  And neither are most women.
The fact that this happened to my friend is not evidence that men are stupid and irresponsible or that women are conniving bitches.  It is evidence that one woman committed an act of betrayal of trust, and that one man had his trust betrayed.