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		| Originally posted by dtb You think she doesn't know?!?  Isn't that something that would come up in several hours of conversation?
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 Not if she were being hit on by my heathen "married" friends.  Only Wonk opens with: "my wife thinks you're really hot."
I once dated a married man.  I didn't know he was married -- no ring, called me all the time in the evening, took me public places, paid with a credit card, his secretary knew me by name.  In short, he did everything one would do to establish a paper trail.  
Unless you ask, and sometimes, like my situation when you do ask and they lie, you just never know.