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Originally posted by evenodds
I once dated a married man. I didn't know he was married [...]
Unless you ask, and sometimes, like my situation when you do ask and they lie, you just never know.
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I have a friend who dated a married man. After a while, she suspected he was married (it was never one thing, just an accumulation of little things), but when she asked him, he would lie.
So unless this guy is affirmatively out to deceive (which is always a possibility, I grant you), it seems highly unusual that the subject wouldn't be raised in the course of several hours of conversation.
ETA: So, to answer the question, I would mention it on the off-chance that she doesn't know/realize what's going on. (It might be somewhat difficult to bring up without sounding judgmental, but not impossible. You could just mention how you went to his wedding last year -- or whenever.) Then, butt out.
If I were friends with the dude's wife, however, my view might be different (but it doesn't sound like that's what's going on here...), as I would feel an obligation to my friend to let her know what's going on.
