A fun article on nerve.com about a woman's experiences working in a NYC sex shop, including an interesting take on the cunt/debate. Here are some excerpts. Disclaimer: I dated this woman for about a year.
"The guy was looking for a video of people having sex with animals. I told him that because bestiality was illegal, he would have a hard time finding a store that would admit to stocking anything like that. I pointed out the shelf with the blow-up sheep. I heard myself say, "Perhaps I can interest you in one of our inflatable companions?" I knew I had been working there too long."
"TRUTH IN ADVERTISING: My favorite dirty-movie title of all time is
Girls Who Suck Cock and Eat Cum"
"Female sexuality suffers from a dearth of non-humiliating slang. Men have access to some enormously satisfying vernacular when it comes to the care and feeding of their genitals. Words like "cock," "dick" and "rod" have a pithy weight all their own, magnified by the possessive. "Pussy," "cunt," "slit" and "snatch" share the same monosyllabic weight, but are usually paired with the objectifying "her" or "some" or "that." The rarest word associated with the vagina seems to be "my." "
http://www.nerve.com/personalessays/beer/shoptalk/
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