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Originally posted by Fashionable But Anonymous So what the hell do you do when the girlfriend has put on some lbs!!?? There is no way I'm saying ANYTHING, although I constantly am reminded of her weight increase (she's put on about 10-15 lbs) from her subtle comments like "I'm a fatty" and "don't look at my fat ass".
Just the other day she asked me how much a certain ex-girlfriend weighed, and I didn't want to tell her (103 but she was TINY)...I know this sounds shallow but I have a huge aversion to fat, especially since this whole country is grotesquely obese...
FYI, she's great in all other aspects. She keeps telling me she needs to lose weight. I, of course, am not going to overtly agree - I don't want her to get a complex. Additionally, I have received hints of an eating disorder in college, and in no way do I want her to starve herself...
Your thoughts?
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My thoughts:
Don't be such a wimp about it.
Either it's a problem for you or it isn't.
If it is a problem for you, tell her. If it's not, tell her to stop whining unless she's going to do something about it.
