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[Did you just call me Coltrane?]

Originally posted by Replaced_Texan
As I type, I'm on the phone with my sister, who is telling me about her date from Thursday/Friday.

They met at his birthday party Thursday, and he's a workout buddy of my brother's (there is now a family wide ban on going out with anyone our brother recommends). Sister says the guy is smoking hot and sort of interesting, though another friend opined that he'd be perfect if he'd just shut up. They hang out for the rest of the night, bar hopping. They end up back at her place. Pretty early on in the hot and heavy part of the evening, he asks her to pee on him and repeated the request several times in the course of the evening. My sister declined that specific request, though I was left with the impression that some of his other requests were enthusiastically met.

During the debriefing, my sister and I were sort of impressed that he was so out there with his fetishes, given that he expressed interest in developing an actual relationship with her at other points in the evening (at one point freaking her out by bringing up kids). We thought that these sort of fetishes in an actual relationship get brought up after a nice fetish-free introductory period. His rationale on the golden showers was that it was his birthday and she should give in to his fetish as a gift.

Anyhow, my sister has now sworn off dating all together. The last guy she went out on a date with ended up getting trashed at the party they were attending, went outside for air, couldn't remember which house the party was in, went back to his car and fell asleep.

First-night hook-up and the guy asks for a golden shower? Good god.

Is he German? If so, she should be nervous about the second encounter.