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Originally posted by Shape Shifter
A contestant in The Bachelor explains her side in an email circulating among Texas GAs:

I have to put a disclaimer on the last episode I am on. The entire time the producers were trying to get me to kiss him. I kept saying no, that if he wanted to, he would and I can tell he doesn't like me. I could TELL he did not like me AT ALL. I am assuming the producers told him to act more like he liked me because then all the sudden, he started gushing on our "one-on-one's" saying all this really really sweet stuff and he had his arm around me, etc. (they were trying to get me to say I thought I would get a rose because every time they asked me, I said "no, I do not think I will get a rose because I can tell he does not like me). SO later that night, the producers said when we all got out of the hot tub "Jess, you need to talk to Jesse right now. And listen, he has already kissed five girls. There are 6 roses. You really need to step it up and be affectionate and try to kiss or something because if not, you will probably go home." So, I thought the most benign thing I could do was just be affectionate and kind of rub his arm and chest and stuff when we were talking. I did that for like 20 seconds. So from the previews, I am apparently the girl that "went too far. . . " and he said "the way she was touching me weirded me out. . . " PLEASE! Like half the girls had already made out with him. The day before they went to a spa and they gave him a massage. And this is the same guy that said "I want to get married because I am sick of waking up to strange faces every morning." (which grossed us all out). So they made me do that for drama, but please. I can understand, "she took off her clothes in front of me and it weirded me out" or "she grabbed my package and that was a little strange. . " but I like rubbed his arm. That is SO dumb. They even have pictures of it on the photo story-line thing. And everyone already knows how they got me to cry at the end. (I turned my back to the camera) and that is on there too. They made me cry by insulting me - saying "who will ever want to marry you?" and "you were very honest about all the other girls being prettier than you. How does it feel to know you were right?" and "what is wrong with you that you get rejected all the time?" So of course I started crying. But they won't show them saying that. They will only show me crying. But just know I was NOT crying over him.

So I had to put a disclaimer on the rest of the show so you won't think I am nuts and explain what really happened. I am hoping no-one will watch it. I most certainly am not watching it.

Caught in the act!