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Originally posted by ThrashersFan
So you are saying that the male wants to play bottom? I mean, he wouldn't need a strap-on to fuck her in the ass. I think your friend is leaping with the "hetero couples" thing -- she may be hetero, but the dude wanting to be ass-fucked has either bi or gay tendencies. NTTAWTT.
Listen, I ain't judging. It isn't my place to judge. It is simply my opinion that men into ass-fucking, whether giving or receiving, aren't being true to themselves or their partners if they claim totally hetero.
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wow, so you say that your aren't being judgemental but yet you are sure based on your opinion that guys who would want to have anal sex with a woman wearing a strap on is gay or has latent homosexual tendencies. excuse me for being stupid, but isn't that judging people???
but in any case, i think that your reasoning is very spurious - there is a subsegment of the bdsm community that is into something called "forced feminization" or "sissifyication" - where basically a dominant woman will play the "traditional male" role while a submissive man will play the "traditional female" role. naturally in such a scene, the strap on would play an essential role. i believe that most of the attraction of people who participate in those type of scenes is that the traditional gender roles are being reversed and the male is submitting to the woman. but to get to the point, a guy who is receiving anal sex from a dominatrix with a strap on is doing it because he wants to submit to a woman - not another man. thus, although it is probably a safe bet that such a couple consists of a dominant woman and a submissive man, it is unlikely that the man is gay or bisexual (because it would probably be way easier for a guy who is into anal simulation to find a gay guy to do it than a dominatrix).
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