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Originally posted by purse junkie
What oops? Take no bullshit and make no apologies. It falls upon the woman until you force it back where it belongs. Next time, do the start-up stuff--get the phone number, buy the gift wrap, whatever, then hand it to your partner with a firm "here, [x occasion] is coming up, you need to do [x--send a card, buy a gift]." Then forget about it for this and all future times. If he blows it, it's not your problem. Once he gets a grip on the concept, then you both can trade off/do favors if you're really busy, you work right next to a mall, etc.
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One step ahead of ya -- for Easter I sent cards out (with pics of the Little Fan) and said "hey, I left some of Little Fan's pics for ya in case you wanna send them to your mom and dad or something. Easter cards too." He got the hint, who knows if it will stick. Is it rude to stop sending cards to people who never, not for any occasion, have sent me a fucking card??
ThrashersFan