To fuck or to cook?

[bold_n_brazen]

Originally Posted by Count de Monet II Esq

Understandable. What if the discussion of the issues indicates it is likely a temporary thing, but may take weeks or possibly months to improve? And you find other advantages to the relationship that at times you feel outweigh what may be temporary disadvantages? Would you still be inclined to leave? I guess I'm curious as to how much work you would put into it, how long would you wait, before you throw in the towel.

I guess if it's RT's "I'm out of work and depressed" then that's one thing. Is that what it is? Otherwise, I have a hard time imagining a "temporary thing".

In my experience, which is of course limited to my own life, there is no such thing as a temporary thing. Once you've lost that loving feeling, it very rarely comes back.

That said, I never really got over the guy who took me to my senior prom, so all of my relationship advice is suspect.

[Hank Chinaski]

Originally Posted by Sidd Finch

I left the woman that most of my family thought I would marry, largely because of these issues.

c.f. Penske married a woman he could lap before she completed a 400m lap.

[bold_n_brazen]

Originally Posted by Sidd Finch

This is a good suggestion, but if someone's libido has really died (even if temporarily), it may be tough to sell her on the idea of going sex toy shopping.

Agreed. If someone isn't that into it, they're just not that into it.

Or they're just not that into it with you.

Or something.

[Count de Monet II Esq]

Originally Posted by Sidd Finch

Also, honestly, if that's really the issue for Count -- his gf lost her job, and their sex life has markedly changed as a result -- and he's questioning whether maybe it's time to leave...... ugh.

Although I can be a cad, why assume this is about me, and not, perhaps, a long-suppressed-evolving-and-contorted-by-the-ravages-of-time lame sex poll?

I'm not in a situation where a gf has lost her job. And, even if I were, the ensuing guilt from just the idea of abandoning someone at that point would be difficult to bear.

[Hank Chinaski]

Originally Posted by bold_n_brazen

Agreed. If someone isn't that into it, they're just not that into it.

Or they're just not that into it with you.

Or something.

i think the sex toy thing was rt trying to add levity.

[Sidd Finch]

Originally Posted by Hank Chinaski

full body cast does not explain a lack of head bobs, does it?

I would think the cast would preclude neck/head motion, and certainly prevent any hand involvement. I guess she could just open wide and let Count do all the moving, but ..... well, let's just say that's not how Thurgreed would suck cock.

[Sidd Finch]

Originally Posted by Hank Chinaski

I am going to go ahead and affirm that I believe you are probably as good at fucking as you are at lawyering.

Can you change your avatar please? It's really starting to disturb me.

[PresentTense Pirate Penske]

Originally Posted by Hank Chinaski

I am going to go ahead and affirm that I believe you are probably as good at fucking as you are at lawyering.

Thanks for having my back. Of course, I think you can admit that your wife has no complaints with me.

[PresentTense Pirate Penske]

Originally Posted by Sidd Finch

Can you change your avatar please? It's really starting to disturb me.

Was that to me or to him?

[Sidd Finch]

Originally Posted by Count de Monet II Esq

Although I can be a cad, why assume this is about me, and not, perhaps, a long-suppressed-evolving-and-contorted-by-the-ravages-of-time lame sex poll?

I'm not in a situation where a gf has lost her job. And, even if I were, the ensuing guilt from just the idea of abandoning someone at that point would be difficult to bear.

No particular reason, except I'm tired of all the "He/she" and "his/her" stuff. And it'd make a lousy poll. And Adder shouldn't be the only poster whom we assume isn't getting laid.

[Sidd Finch]

Originally Posted by PresentTense Pirate Penske

Was that to me or to him?

Yes.

[Mmmm, Burger (C.J.)]

Originally Posted by PresentTense Pirate Penske

Was that to me or to him?

Exactly.

[Greedy,Greedy,Greedy]

Originally Posted by Sidd Finch

No particular reason, except I'm tired of all the "He/she" and "his/her" stuff. And it'd make a lousy poll. And Adder shouldn't be the only poster whom we assume isn't getting laid.

You mean Count isn't an Adder sock?

[Hank Chinaski]

Originally Posted by Sidd Finch

No particular reason, except I'm tired of all the "He/she" and "his/her" stuff. And it'd make a lousy poll. And Adder shouldn't be the only poster whom we assume isn't getting laid.

true story- my wife walks with a woman who hates sex- married with two kids and no interest in it at all- as I said, I don't think it that unusual BUT she tells my wife that she encourages her hubby to jack off in the shower.

two things- one, you ain't fucking me, I may still stay for the kids, but you don't have any say so over my jacking off. that I do on my terms.

two, how the fuck is she telling the neighbors how odd the hubbie is?

[Greedy,Greedy,Greedy]

Originally Posted by Hank Chinaski

true story- my wife walks with a woman who hates sex- married with two kids and no interest in it at all- as I said, I don't think it that unusual BUT she tells my wife that she encourages her hubby to jack off in the shower.

two things- one, you ain't fucking me, I may still stay for the kids, but you don't have any say so over my jacking off. that I do on my terms.

two, how the fuck is she telling the neighbors how odd the hubbie is?

I think she was telling your wife that she wouldn't stand in her way.